Practiced in this way, the whole sex act is unnatural and it keeps both parties mired in the mud. That was throwing us out of balance and denying me as a woman my true nature of being multi orgasmic which in turn denied him my Qi energy. It’s truly transforming how much it can bring a couple closer together.įor the first nine years of our marriage, before I made these changes, he was releasing way before I was even getting warmed up. It’s all the same guy you fell in love with, just different versions. He can go from aggressive, lazy and moody with frequent ejaculation to agreeable, compliant, and loving, waiting to serve my every whim when there is very infrequent release. It’s a special day all around.Īny woman that has removed ejaculation from their husband’s life knows how much his personality can be adjusted. It would be great if the male only ejaculated for procreation, but the truth is that after riding him daily for 5-7 days for extended periods in his pre-climax state (the moment just before ejaculation), he’s more than a little anxious, and I’m kind of eager to watch his release.

Thanks to the application of consequences for unauthorized ejaculation which is really a topic for another blog entry, he has learned restraint and waits for me to give him the release command which once given produces a large amount of ejaculate immediately every time.

I decided on one ejaculation every 5-7 days, preferably 7 if he’s holding up well emotionally. Using some spiritual traditions and some scientific research (see my next article) I devised an ejaculation schedule that serves the relationship best. I think most women will have to be strong for their husband in this regard. Like most men, my husband lacked the strength to refrain from release in the heat of the moment, and it was obvious some intervention was needed. After almost a year of practice, I believe that semen retention is the foundation of a blissful joyful marriage. He didn’t know the last time he masturbated was the last time period. He agreed to participate thinking it might be fun to try for a little while. Our marriage has become more passionate, blissful, and joyful than ever. Practicing semen retention has certainly brought a new change in my husbands biology. I take truth where I find it, and I thought this might resonate with some other women.

I’m not a reiki master or anything like that, and my husband doesn’t practice. The principle of semen retention certainly reside in the tantra, but I think what we’re doing is more baby tantra with a FLR twist. Many couples are attracted to a FLR, but as a result of my studies, I’m realizing that the principles of a FLR reside in some of these traditions. And as a female that dabbled with a FLR in the past, this took on a new meaning which maybe the Tao masters didn’t envision. Simply put, semen retention is when the male has sexual intercourse, and refrains from ejaculation in order preserve Jing and Qi not to mention a myriad of health benefits. I’m also a Yoga and Qigong practitioner.Īlthough we’ve always had a great marriage, about a year ago we embarked on the Yoga/Qigong practice of semen retention. My income is quite lucrative which allows me the luxury of having a house husband. All pretty good years I might add, but this last year has probably been the most passionate to say the least. My husband and I have been married over ten years. I think I’m a fairly typical woman in many respects.

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